I feel like I've spent most of my life with a very narrow definition of "sexy." I'm not really comfortable with that word at all, to be honest. Sexiness seemed to revolve around wearing tight, short, cleavage-revealing clothes, preferably in an animal print, and towering heels. Red lipstick is involved too, and a mass of tousled hair, and an enhanced pout. I have no idea where I gleamed this cliche of sartorial sexiness from. Perhaps I read too many issues of Cosmo magazine when I was younger, and thus more impressionable. It's sort of stupid, this pinched definition of sexiness.
What do you think dressing sexy looks like? Do you actively try to dress in a sexy way, or avoid it entirely?